Welcome one and all - straight, gay, bi-curious, bi-sexual, transgendered and those of you still deciding. Welcome singles who are looking, singles who are committed, marrieds, marrieds and looking and marrieds with others. I think that covers just about everyone.     This is a website dedicated to relationships -those pesky situations that warm our hearts and other places as well. The situations and circumstances that cause us supreme joy, angst, despair, heartache and heartbreak.     I am the resident relationship expert and sexpert here and I will do my best to educate you in matters of the heart and the needs of the body. I will try to teach you about the yin and the yang as well as the good, the bad, the ugly and the outrageous in relationships. I welcome your questions and comments and will do my best to answer them all in a timely manner.     No judgements  are levied here. Life is too short and its path is often paved with disappointment, disillusionment and unrealistic expectations. You may encounter the highest highs, the lowest lows and the pleasant unexpected in between. I wholeheartedly support you in whatever relationship lifestyle you choose and I will try my best to impart 20 years of knowledge and insight whenever possible.     I am very accessible via e-mail and/or phone.     Your questions and literary contributions are always welcome here. If you are quoting someone or submitting a previously published item, please be respectful of the copyright and attach the appropriate attributions.     There is a chat room available so please feel free to use it.     I do have a couple of requests. Please take time to document your visit here by signing the guestbook and pass the word of this website to your friends, co-workers and others who might be interested.     Thank you for visiting me here and may happiness dwell within your realms.