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Introduction

Always maligned and rarely understood, Mistresses have suffered the slings and arrows of society since the beginning of time.  These pages are devoted to the women who are the lovers and emotional support partners to the husbands whose wives seem to have forgotten they are men also.

 

Dear Mrs...

At some point in time
You stopped being a wife
And because of your ignorance
He's now here in my life
Benign neglect
Like an invisible blade
Cut deep to his core
In the wound that you made
Perhaps you are selfish>Or simply don't care
But there is pain in his heart
And he wants to be there
But the rejection he feels
Each time you move away
Leaves nothing to look to
At the end of the day
So he's here with me
And there's pain in my heart
He will never be mine
That, I knew from the start
But if you continue
To do what you do
There will always be others
Although he wants you
Sooner or later
He will give up the fight
And think of himself
And do what is right
And when that day comes
And trust me it will
Your life will be different
You'll feel the chill
Cold lonely emptiness
Will then take its place
And you'll only have memories
Of his handsome face
You'll rant and you'll rave
But you'll understand
He was your husband
But also a man
Your friends will console you
They will share in your tears
And ask how you stood it
For all of those years
But when you're alone
And you realize he's gone
You will live with the grief
Caused by all that you've done.

 © 2005 theladymarsha1



 

Deafened Ears

You rarely heard the words I said
They fell on deafened ears
 tried to tell you how I felt
Through all the lonely years
Apparently you had a plan
An agenda so to speak
And I was just a stepping stone
To help you reach the peak
I tried to give you all the things
That you could ever want or need
But no matter how I tried
You closed the door on me
You say that you still love me
And want me in your life
I doubt now that you ever did
You just wanted to be a wife
I wish that I could tell you
How much you've hurt my heart
But it wouldn't make a difference
I just wasn't very smart
In this sort of game you play
No one ever wins
The deceptively good beginning
Was the path to a very sad end.

© 2006 Lambkin Walters Lavender



 

Notes from a Mistress

Your heart is cluttered
My heart is free
I chose to love you
But you don't love me
All things being equal
But never the same
Sometimes these things happen
And no one's to blame
I know what you're thinking
But I know my place
I just love to hold you
And stare at your face
The eyes that speak volumes
Without uttering a line
You belong to the others
And you will never be mine
But when you are here
And holding me close
You give me the things
That I need the most
Compassion and caring
Neither is bad
It's what makes the difference
Between happy and sad
This life is so short
We must take what we get
And hope that our needs
Are basically met
But if we are lucky
As you and I are
To share something special
Is much better by far
I hope I answered your question
About what it is that you do
It's just me being me
And you being you

© 2005 theladymarsha1


 

A Message from the Other One

You want to know
How I came to be
Then please read this message
The words are from me
You have suspicions
And rightfully so
You need only remember
The day you let go
I am the one who listens
I am the one who cares
My heart is the one that hurts
When his feelings and pain are shared
It is me with the warm embraces
It is me with the ready smile
It is me who extends the warm hand
That says come lay with me for a while
It was you who refused to hear him
It was you who suddenly turned cold
It was you who made him feel
As if his usefulness had somehow grown old
He was the one who wanted you
He tried to address all of your needs
He was the one who protected you
From any and all of his deeds
He was the one who loved you
You were the one he needed
You turned your back once to often
And so he finally conceded
Your labels and slings cannot hurt me
No remorse nor guilt do I bear
It was you who painted the picture
And pretended that he was not there

© 2006 Lambkin Walters Lavender


 

Differences

Different lives and different beds.
Always something left unsaid.
The smile, the hug, the touch, the kiss.
All the things I always miss.
Between us both we find a way.
To make it work from day to day.
The last thing on my mind at night.
Is what I felt as you held me tight.

© 2007 Lambkin Walters Lavender



 



©2007 The Lady Marsha

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