I don't understand anything about the 4th of July article.  You have a choice.  No one is perfect.  When it goes beyond good sex, good food and doing stuff together what's left?  People want too much and this is why they are miserable. - James Edwards, Boulder, CO

    If men actually had the opportunity to "have their cake and eat it too" there would be no cakemen.  Girlfriends on the side have no problems with sex or affection or even conversation.  They are never too tired, never have headaches, never have a list of crap for you to do.  They appreciate you and treat you well.  Maybe every married guy needs a wife and a half. - Terry Linden, Akron, OH

    On behalf of all us "cakemen" out there, I salute you.  No one understands us but you make a difference.  Thanks. - Harold McWilliams, Austin, TX

    I read the 4th of July article and you hit the nail on the head.  My husband is very good to me.  I have always felt as if something was missing and it was.  It was my involvement in my life and my marriage.  I told him that I lost interest but the truth is I never was interested.  I kept looking for the spark too.  He left me recently for someone else and then I realized that it was me who never had the spark.  He loved me but I was too busy looking for something else and now I regret it.  Great article- timely and right on point. - Kimberly Fishbein, Santa Clara, CA

    I just read your 4th of July article.  I have never seen someone who understands so well.  You described me perfectly and yes I regret looking for the spark because I missed out on the true flame of my life.  I hope you are happy in your life.  If there is someone he is very lucky.  Thanks Lady Marsha. - Thomas Campbell, Louisville, KY

    Ms. Lady Marsha you are the ultimate online seducer.  The music makes you want to make love everytime you hit a page.  I feel the heat here.  Give us more! - Enrique Velez, Bronx, NY

    Woman to woman, I don't like you.  My husband lives on your site.  Big tits, big smile and seductive music.  Find a man and get a life girlfriend. - Erin Antanasio, Wilkes Barre, PA