About

Greetings and Salutations

    I am The Lady Marsha of Valentine. Some of you will be pleasantly surprised about what you see and learn here and others will be just plain shocked. You will recover I promise and as we get to know each other, I hope to win the doubters over.

    I am not in line for any throne nor have I been granted a special designation by any ruling monarch. I am royal by birth as are we all. I reign over all who choose to enter the land of Valentine, where lust,passion, seduction, romance and even that other "L" word rule supreme. This site is about achieving fulfillment - physical, and emotional.

    I am a relationship coach and writer/poet/publisher and a former educator. For the better part of 20 years I have been actively engaged in the business and research of relationships. I have expertise in creating, building and sustaining them as well as the unpleasant task of sometimes advising that cutting bait would be a very wise thing to do. The happiness of others is paramount to me.

    A graduate of the University of Akron, I am the mother of 11 grown children and mostly independent children and grams to 25 and counting. As to how old I am, a lady never tells but let's just say I beat the first grain of dirt here by a mere matter of seconds. After all age is only a number. Our thoughts, attitudes and outlooks are what determine our true age. In case you're wondering, the pictures here are recent.

    I have been a wife, the other woman in my own marriage, a widow and the accommodating distraction to a very married man. None of these roles has in any way served to define me as a person or a woman. Validation occurred at birth, and while I greatly enjoy the pleasure and companionship of a man, I do not need it to feel complete. That occurred at birth also.

    An admitted incurable romantic, I am a deep thinker, intuitive and a firm believer that life should believed with verve. Generous doses of passion, sincere and abiding affection, respect and appreciation should be a part of our daily regimen. Honesty, empathy, compassion, loyalty and open communication complete the menu.

    If you are selfless enough to love without expectation, and generous enough to accept what is given on the terms it is given, then you win the jackpot of life.